To Lose Weight, All You Need is Love

By: Scottsdale Weight Loss Center
Published: February 27, 2015
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When was the last time you audibly exclaimed how great you are? That you are proud of yourself? As you lose weight, give yourself a verbal reminder of just how great you are — positive affirmations can give you quite the weight loss boost!

You have probably heard the saying before that the world is full of give and take. Beyond this, you could probably say that the world is full of givers and takers—as in those who are always ready and willing to give a hand and spread some love, and those who are perpetually on the taking end, those who need constant reminders that they are loved.

The problem is that give and take isn’t a perfect paradox. You can’t always be the giver. The more you give the less you have, and at a certain point if you aren’t taking anything then you aren’t going to have anything left to give—that is basic economics. Whether as the head of your office or the head of your household, you have probably experienced this first hand. At a certain point you have to stop giving, take a step back and figure out who is going to help you out.

This is something that troubles many people who struggle with obesity. As the giver you are constantly supporting those around you. You make your husband his favorite meals even though you know you shouldn’t eat them. You spend your evenings helping your children cram for an exam the next morning even though you wanted to go exercise—and your child should have started studying a week ago. You sacrifice your own well-being time and time again for things to run smoothly at home or at work, and then you reach the end of the day and are running on empty, and a good night of sleep isn’t enough to recuperate you.

Your body doesn’t just run on sustenance and sleep. You need love and support to keep going, yet so many people take on the role of the giver and don’t stop to accept any support. Now that you want to make lifestyle changes and lose weight you need to take a step back and accept support. To lose weight, you need more love—from yourself and from your loved ones.

It is a human trait to become comfortable with routine. We get into grooves and we stick to them. You get into the groove of being a giver, and your family members or co-workers get into the groove of being takers. But you need to take too, and you might be surprised just how much your family is willing to give when you give them the chance.

Making the decision to lose weight with medical weight loss is a big step. Be proud of yourself for it! Give yourself a big hug in the mirror and tell yourself how great you are doing—audibly. Remind yourself out loud that you are happy and smile about it. Research shows that projecting happiness can make you feel happier, so give being happy with yourself a try. Be open with your spouse and children about your concerns, and tell them how they can help you. By spreading the give and take, you can actually spread the love—and after all, love is all you need.

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I landed at Scottsdale Weight Loss 13 years ago and lost 50 pounds….regained 10 and then lost them again, plus another 20. It is a great program, and all the professionals are amazing and caring.
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SWL has been a God send to me! Dr. Guzman & staff especially Lilia & Bianca! They’re so supportive & professional I have lost approx 50 pounds over the year at my own pace.
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The staff at the Phoenix office are great! My experience with Dr deGuzman has been wonderful. Miriam has always been very helpful and makes the office visits pleasant and personal. The medical assistants have always been professional and great to help meet my goals.
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I really felt comfortable with Kristen at my initial appointment. Everyone at the center was caring and friendly, from Bianca, at the front desk, to Lily, who is the MA. Kristen listened to my frustrations and prior disappointments about what has not worked, and is confident that she can help me achieve my goals of weight loss. I am looking forward and excited to see the success I will attain.
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I'd lost 20 pounds on my own and struggled to keep it off. I decided GLP-1 meds were the next step in losing more and keeping it off. I wanted a medical doctor supervised program and chose SWLC. I am so very glad I did! The team in Glendale is so supportive and kind; and when I feel discouraged, they pick me up with positive energy and input. They really do a great job with encouragement all the time. 6 weeks in I've lost 17 pounds, and am approaching weight loss with a very new perspective. Also knowing that when I reach my target goal, they'll be there through maintenance and beyond is encouraging as well. Good to not feel alone on this journey.
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